What Would The World Be Without GOSSIP?

Have you ever wondered what the world would be like without 'GOSSIP', I can just imagine a bunch of people smiling all day and the others who have taken 'gossip' as a part time or full time jobs.. either bored or fustrated but smiling anyway...lol

Was going through my phone for updates and I saw a post on a friends 'PM' and she was talking about her encounter with some drama queen and how this individual liked to talk about her and it reminded me of my own personal experience and what I heard about myself lately, usually I didn't have any kind of reaction when things like that happen, one might expect I start yelling, pull at my hair fuming and breathing fire..but I stop to think how much it cost me to make my precious hair ,buy the hair piece and how long I sat at the salon to get it done and quickly changed my mind, besides I would hate to mess up my make up. Instead I end up feeling sorry for them and thought how sad and lonely these people really were
I figured that people who always had bad things to say about others are very insecure, tired of life, fustrated and unhappy, because of all the Insecurities they face it was only natural to talk down on others or bad mouth them
Sometimes I felt I could say to them 'i feel your pain' But come to think of it I have also noticed that it was a general way of life only that some had gotten themselves in big trouble for bad mouthing others while others have channeled their talent for gossip into a business, this gift had become a very lucrative profession for those who knew how to channel all that energy policing people into lucrative businesses and had become successful professionals in media

So next time you hear something bad about yourself..don't get worked up..those who know you know you!...make it easier GIVE THEM A HUG they need LOVE
HAPPY WEEKEND!

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